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The R.E.A.L Secrets to a Happy and Healthy Relationship!

Is this you?
  • You’re confident in your career, but you’re not emotionally confident in love.
  • You’re divorced or broken up from a long-term relationship that has left you doubting your choices.
  • The relationship you’re in has you thinking “something’s missing”– you’re not on the same page anymore, but you’re not ready to give up.
  • You rarely go on a second date even though you’re a great catch, either because he isn’t really what you’re looking for or when you think he is, he disappears.
  • You’re cautious in the beginning because you don’t want to get hurt. But before you know it, you’re left heartbroken because it did not work out (but if you’re honest with yourself, you “knew” it was doomed all along).

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You thought you’d have it all together by now and

…It’s Time to Get R.E.A.L

Because You Deserve Your Love Story


Meet your coach, Arlene Vasquez Washburn.

Certified Matchmaker, Dating Coach, Creator of, Get REAL, Get Love Coaching System, Founder of AVConnexions

Arlene Vasquez Washburn is a leader in the Matchmaking Industry, with some fairy tale successes to her name. Arlene is the CEO of the Matchmaking Institute in New York City the only State Licensed School in the world established in 2003.

Arlene founded AVConnexions to offer top-level matchmaking, singles events, dating and relationship coaching for professionals. Her keen intuition, combined with adept recruitment skills, has won Arlene widespread acclaim for her matchmaking and relationship coaching across multiple channels.

Arlene travels worldwide, speaking to inspire singletons and as a mentor, trainer, consultant and recruiter for other matchmakers. She’s the resident relationship expert on WOR 710 Radio, New York’s #1 Talk Radio Station, a contributor to Change Your Attitude, Change Your Life Magazine, and featured on Cosmo Sirius® Radio, YourTango, Project Eve and Telemundo, the largest Hispanic TV station.

With 20 years of marketing experience behind her, Arlene experienced, first hand, the struggles of building intimate, personal relationships while working 12-14 hour days. From marrying her perfect match to pairing a woman who got married for the first time at the age of sixty, Arlene is the kind of matchmaker who walks her talk.

Arlene is passionate about helping women have healthy relationships with themselves and their significant other. Having cracked the code herself, she now shares all her findings as the creator behind the Get REAL, Get Love® Group Coaching System for Women.

Arlene is the Board President of The Divorce Support Professionals, past President of the Board of Directors for the YWCA of Bergen County, and recognized by the Continental Who’s Who.

  • Easily attracting a loving man you can trust and count on.
  • Communicating your desires effectively to connect on a deeper level.
  • Confidently talking to any man, anytime as an empowered woman.
  • Spotting the red flags from a mile away and what to do about it.
  • Meeting and bonding with the kind of man that loves and accepts you fully and shares your same life goals.


That sounds pretty amazing, right?
It’s only 6 weeks away when you join
Get REAL, Get Love!

A 6-week program for professional women who are tired of not getting results in their love lives and are ready to experience the transformation that will attract great men, great love, and a great life!

This Group Program Will Change Your Life!
Get REAL, Get Love is a 6-week group program designed to increase your confidence and ultimately help you be your own matchmaker whether you’re 35 or 65! When you get REAL you stop denying your true desires and you’re able to communicate them clearly without being afraid that ‘Mr. Right’ will walk away. During this program, you’ll learn to manifest the love and life you’ve been longing for. You’ll swap out and overcome the thinking that’s kept you stuck for new empowering beliefs that will guarantee you happy and healthy relationships! When you complete this program, don’t be surprised that all the other important areas of your life: finances, health, career also SKYROCKET!
Here’s What You Get When You Get R.E.A.L.
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Modules 1 & 2 / Week 1 Preparing yourself to Receive; Setting Strong Intentions, Taking Inventory of Your Past Relationships, Starting to Cultivate a Love Mindset!
  • Step into a success mindset (that sticks) so you can open yourself up to receive love on your terms!
  • Uncover any patterns that have kept you from achieving YOUR version of happiness and love in the past
Modules 3 & 4 / Week 2 Creating Your New Love Story, Connecting to Innermost Desires, Take An Unwavering Stand For Yourself!
  • Gain confidence and have clarity in your vision of love
  • Know your worth and core values and walk your talk!
Modules 5 & 6 / Week 3 Falling In Love With Yourself Unapologetically, Vibrating at a Level to Manifest Your Perfect Man.
  • Discover what sets you apart, makes you unique, and magnetizes your dream guy
  • Attract a man that supports you, loves you and respects you
Modules 7 & 8 / Week 4 Transforming Your Vulnerabilities Into Empowerment, Becoming Visible and Irresistible.
  • Release the past and make space for your new love
  • Reveal any blocks that have been holding you back, keeping you single or in the wrong relationship
Modules 9 & 10 / Week 5 Honing in on Your Intuition and Becoming a Decisive Woman, Mastering the Art of Feminine Power In Relationships.
  • Expose any patterns that have kept you from achieving YOUR version of happiness and success in the past
  • Reconnect to your intuition so you can accurately “read” men, easily communicate in your relationships and make confident decisions that move you forward in love and in life
Modules 11 & 12 Week 6 Committing to Nurturing Your Relationships, Pulling it All Together!
  • Set an actionable plan to create new opportunities for meeting ‘Mr. Right’
  • Solve the mystery of where the right men are

Love Testimonials

“How often are you unaware how you or certain traits of yours are perceived by the other? Therefore, coaching is a critical success factor. Arlene and her team have been outstanding at this. I am glad to say that after a year and merging our lives we are engaged and plan to get married later this year”. ~Pharmaceutical Executive



“Luck is When Preparation Meets Opportunity” ~Seneca
Here’s What You Get When You Get R.E.A.L.
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  • 1 Live Orientation Call with Q&A to set strong intentions and prepare you to get the most out of the program and our time together!
  • 12 Downloadable Course Modules to help you dive deep into every part of your love journey to attract high-quality men, break free of toxic cycles and have an enviable love life.
  • 6 Live Coaching Calls with Q&A time with Arlene to receive personal laser coaching, a chance to review the past and upcoming exercises for more powerful results.
  • Downloadable Recordings of All Orientation/Training/Q&A Calls so you can listen and re-listen anytime and from anywhere you want.
  • One personalized 30-Minute Pre-Program Session to hear your back story and get to know your specific challenges before you begin the program (You can have a breakthrough just in this session alone)
  • Lifetime Member Site Access to Training and Bonus Video Tutorials

Get 5 Game-Changing Bonuses! We know you can have amazing results with these additional bonuses that really make this course invaluable!

Image Video Module
(Valued at $250)
Find your own personal style while looking fabulous! A course taught by Lisa Emelo, Image Consultant trained by Stacey London from TLC’s “What Not to Wear”.
Highly Engaged Private Facebook Group
Join an intimate group of amazing women like yourself who are conquering their love destiny! We create a community of sisterhood and support that is absolutely vital through your transformation. A safe place where you can get non-judgmental support. A place where you’ll receive our best love hacks on having a happy, healthy and an off the hook relationship with yourself and your best friend, lover, and partner. A place that you can come in and feel inspired about love and life every single day.
2-45 Minute Coaching Calls
(Valued at $500)
2 X 45 Minute Private Coaching Calls with Arlene to help you laser in and get extra direction before and after the program. For many of you, this may be the first time getting support about love so we want you to feel safe and supported throughout this process.
Complete Online Dating Profile
(Valued at $375)
Want the very best profile and really increase your odds of attracting “the ONE” then you want our full-service profile writing: 1-Hour strategy session; Attention Grabbing Username and Tagline; Write/re-write a unique ‘About me’ profile section; Up to 3 Profile edits based on feedback (if needed); Review up to 50 photos with recommendations for 5 to 10. The ultimate package for the serious dater!
These bonuses alone are worth over $1,000 combined The REAL overall value is $3,575! Take advantage of the “Early Bird” Pricing!


What if I can’t afford this?


There’s a payment plan of 4 installments billed every 2 weeks to make it very convenient for you. AND you can check out with PayPal credit, which will give you 6 full months to pay off your bill with no interest. We don’t want money to be a barrier to love.


Is there a refund policy?


Due to the low price point, we do not offer refunds.


When will the course begin and when does it end?


The program kicks with an orientation pre-call March 28th and officially starts April 4th with a coaching call and access to 2 digestible modules each week for 6 weeks with a break mid-April. Program ends a week of May 13th.


Is this program only for single women?


No, Get REAL Get Love will benefit any woman who’s looking to dive deep in self-love, desires a more fulfilling love life and better relationships with men.


I’m a confident and strong professional woman, will this program benefit me?


Most of our clients are professional business women who are confident in many areas of their lives who have greatly benefited from our coaching.


I’m in a different time zone will I miss the calls?


This program is available to anyone anywhere. There are prerecorded self-paced modules sent out weekly. The live calls are recorded and made available online. Questions for Q&A can be emailed or posted on our Facebook community that includes coaching hours for maximum flexibility. 1:1 coaching calls are scheduled at your convenience.


I’m really busy, how many hours a week will I need to dedicate to this program?


You get what you put into this.
-2 hours for the 2 modules and
-1 hour for the live Coaching/Q&A calls.


Can I take advantage of the bonuses if I’m not local?


Bonuses are designed to be taken advantage of anywhere there is the Internet.


TrustSeal-Logo-_200x200px_OUR GUARANTEE We promise to show up ready and eager to share life-changing information. We will provide ongoing support through your transformation. We won’t forget about you after the program… there’s a 30-day post-program call built into your package to address any challenges or celebrate your success!

R.E.A.L Dispels Many Myths Like:
  • “If it’s meant to be it will happen.”
  • “If you’re patient, someday Prince Charming will come knocking on your door.”
  • “Love will happen organically.”
  • “I need to have my career or life together before I can have a relationship.”
  • “I should wait for my kids to grow up before I focus on my love life.”
  • “Prioritizing my love life means that I’m desperate.”

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Hey, True Love Seeker…
  • You are in the right place! Take being here as a sign that you’re READY to have an honest, committed and truly satisfying love this year!
  • Did you know you have to get R.E.A.L with yourself if you want to experience true love?
  • It’s not about games, rules or changing who you are… It’s only about one thing, always has been… Being brave enough to get R.E.A.L about love.
  • When you get R.E.A.L all the pieces will finally fall into place.

The program begins on March 28, 2017. Register now to take advantage of early bird pricing $1,200 (Regular price $1,925)

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